Would you want to know if...?

Ladies,

If your boyfriend or husband had a female (attractive or not) make a pass at him (this includes flirting, excessive touching, kissing etc), whether he was attracted to her or not, would you want to know?

Would you want him to 'fess up right after it happened, or would you rather he didn't tell you (and run the risk of hearing from someone else later)? Would you be able to handle the information if he did tell you?

Guys,

Would you hold back information like that from your girlfriends or wives, for whatever reason (you think she won't be able to handle it, she might get jealous, there isn't anything there to tell)?

Or would you 'fess up immediately to clear the air before it blows out of proportion if she found out from someone else?

Note: this did not happen to me, I'm just reflecting on something I heard. More on this later.

To make this easy, just answer the poll on the right :)